Something Scary is Happening with Boys Today
From kindergarten to college, they’re less resilient and less ambitious than they were a mere twenty years ago. Parents, teachers, and mental health professionals are worried about boys. But until now, no one has come up with good reasons for their decline—nor, more important, with workable solutions to reverse this troubling trend. More
“Boys Adrift is a must-read for any parent of boys. This is real science, and Dr. Sax thoroughly uncovers the important health issues that
parents of boys need to be tuned into.”
— Dr. Mehmet Oz, Professor and Vice Chairman, New York Presbyterian Hospital, Columbia University; and co-author of the bestseller YOU: Staying Young: The Owner's Manual for Extending Your Warranty
“Excellent and informative references and information are provided . . . Powerfully and persuasively presented.”
— The Journal of the American Medical Association; click here to link to the full review
“Startling . . . like a brick thrown through your window.”
— CBC (Canadian Broadcasting Corporation); click here to read the complete post
“Sax, in his pointed, conversational new book, Boys Adrift, reports seeing something new in his medical practice, and hearing something disturbing in the comments after his talks around the nation.
Parents and girlfriends describe boys and young men plastered to the controls of their video games, hostile to school, disconnected from adult men and listless on "academic steroids" prescribed to them for attention deficit disorders.
Sax zeroes in on these maladies . . .Boys Adrift is an important entry into the conversation. This call to reconsider how the boy becomes the man is worth heeding.”
— The Cleveland Plain Dealer; click here to read the full review
“Interesting, helpful and very insightful. An important book.”
— Dr. Bill Bennett, former U.S. Secretary of Education (1985 - 1988), and chair of the National Endowment for the Humanities (1981-1985); click here to listen to the full interview (20 minutes)
“Dr. Sax is the Al Gore of the gender crisis. He has EDUCATED us about the nature and scope of the problem. He has WARNED us about the consequences of doing nothing.
And he has INSPIRED us to take action in our schools and in our communities.”
— Michael Halfin, Huron Heights Secondary School, Newmarket, Ontario
“Boys Adrift presents a straightforward argument that incorporates solid research and, thankfully, does not blame feminism. . .
Sax also makes sure to remind us that he doesn't think girls have it easier.
But at a time when it is almost unusual to find a young man with drive and direction, Sax's work is an important part of a growing public discussion. ”
— The Stranger (Seattle's alternative newspaper); click here to link to the full review -- AND to view a provocative illustration by artist Kris Chau
“This book is insightful, engaging, and easy to read. It is essential reading for parents of girls and
boys, and for those who expect to become parents. I have passed my copy of the book to my
daughter. The epidemic of unmotivated boys and underachieving men is real and demands
action; this book provides a carefully researched analysis of the problem and offers useful advice
on how to deal with it.”
— Professor Craig Anderson, Iowa State University
“Leonard Sax brings good science and gifted writing to his analysis of our biggest social problem in Boys Adrift. I know something of the literature on unmotivated boys
and was surprised by how much I learned. Expect to be newly interested in plastic bottles and much else besides.”
— Professor Steven E. Rhoads, University of Virginia, author of Taking Sex Differences Seriously
“Dr. Sax has the amazing talent of pulling together complicated scientific and cultural data from multiple sources to provide a stunning and compelling argument regarding this growing problem
familiar to parents as well as to professionals who work with underachieving boys and young men. Thankfully, he also presents concrete solutions and resources for helping our young men avoid these pitfalls.”
— Flo Hilliard, Gender Studies Project, University of Wisconsin - Madison
“Sax's discussion of a "failure to launch" will ring true for many parents and other concerned adults,
and his final chapter on detoxing the modern environment for boys and girls should provoke both thought and action.
Though Sax's book is written in a conversational tone, his documentation is thorough and impressive.
This is an important book, especially for parents and educators, but for anyone who is concerned with the well-being of our society and its young people. ”
— The Daily Herald; click here to read the full review
“Boys Adrift is a compelling and thought-provoking examination of the male crisis in contemporary American society. True to form, Dr. Sax balances research
with narrative to produce a readable text that explores social, environmental, and cultural factors contributing to this crisis and offers us sensible suggestions that will help right the course
for our boys and men. A must read for all of us!”
— Doug MacIsaac, Department of Teacher Education, Stetson University
“Dr. Sax has performed an outstanding service in identifying and exploring a disturbing and overlooked trend: the vast number of boys who seem to be disengaging from school and from their own potential. His
analysis of this problem, as well as his engaging insights and advice for parents, make this a must-read for anyone who is frustrated with what is happening to boys in our culture -- or to anyone who is struggling to raise a healthy,
happy, and successful son.”
— Ron Henry, Men's Health Network, sponsor of the Boys and Schools Project
“If you're the parent of a boy, Dr. Sax's book Boys Adrift is required reading. . . Sax investigates five factors that contribute to what is becoming a national epidemic.
He looks at the way children are taught and the role that video games, prescription drugs and environmental estrogens play.
He also notes the lack of male role models in the culture at large as a contributing factor.
This is fascinating, often unsettling stuff. Fortunately, Dr. Sax offers a program for change. His important book gives a wholly original perspective on American boys in decline, and thankfully offers information to help reverse this trend.”
— Book Page, www.bookpage.com, Click here to read the full review
“ My youngest son is 22 and a senior in college. He called me the other day and said he had read a book and it changed his life. He told me that I had to go out and buy this book - "today!"
I did and after reading it, I find that I am alarmed and at the same time reassured. My youngest son, in particular, is very much in the catagory of adrift and unmotivated.
Now I know why. Now HE knows why. He is incredibly reassured that he is normal, that he is not alone, and that there are steps he can take to "fix" his world.
The first thing he is doing is unplugging his video devices; PC, Wii, xbox, nintendos, even his TV. He visited with his college advisor to get back on track with his physics major.
Yes, he is very smart. But he is derailed in many ways for all the reasons laid out well in this remarkable book.
I can tell you that you should, you must read this book. You would be remiss if you have a male child and do not buy, read and digest this information.
It will change your family and the way you do things. My husband is a director on the local school board and we intend to make some noise in our local school district because this is too huge of a problem
across our country and in our schools to ignore. Thank you to Dr. Sax for his insightful, well researched and extremely helpful, motivating book.
My son is a better person for knowing why he is the way he is and now has the tools to make himself over - better. I intend to help him get there. READ THIS BOOK!”
— Nikita, from Aurora; Click here to link to the original review
“ This is the most important book that I have ever read, and I've read a lot of parenting books. I have purchased ten copies and am giving them as Christmas and birthday gifts to all of my friends who have boys. I have kept 3 for myself which I am loaning out.
— Lisa K. Morgan-Long of Oakville, Ontario; Click here to link to the original review